Monday, 23 June 2014

When should couples consider surrogacy as the last option?


Lengthy process of adoption and lack of genetic connection with children leaves infertile couples with dismal prospects. However, the advent of reproductive technologies has given the option of assisted conception and its progeny, surrogacy.

The term surrogacy no more remains alien in the household dictionary. While undergoing rigorous infertility treatment, sometimes couples are informed by doctors that it is not possible for them to have babies through normal process. Women, usually after mid-30s, lose their chances of conceiving and develop higher infertility symptoms. Although the couples have become forthcoming to the idea of surrogacy but there are certain considerations, the couples should know that considering surrogacy can be their last resort. Surrogacy has emerged has most prospective option for infertile couples in recent years.

Couples having problems conceiving even after In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) should consider surrogacy as an option. Although surrogacy has appealed a wide spectrum of people around the world, but there are certain inhibitions and even financial factors that might trim the options. Few important factors to be considered prior to taking part in surrogacy are -

Fertility Problems – One or both the couple is diagnosed
When the couple is making attempts to conceive for more than a year and doctors inform you about one or both of you are diagnosed with fertility issues. In such a situation, the couple should know that the co0nception through natural process is not possible and can extract toll of your emotions and money. In that situation, the couple should opt for surrogacy in India.

Financial Strength - fight conception issues

Surrogacy is a costly means of having a baby as it requires help of a carrier for around a year to carry your baby/babies. When you know that money is not an issue and you have the necessary finances, then surrogacy is the best known option. It is important to have the necessary funds before seriously considering surrogacy.

Children with Genetic Likeness

Infertile couples, who wish to have children with genetic resemblance, can always consider surrogacy as their best option. Couples who are unable to conceive may choose surrogacy because the child will share genetic traits with one of the parents.

When every other assistance fails

Some couples do not wish to even think of surrogacy until the time when all else fails. Many individuals like to try all other means available prior to pursuing surrogacy whether it be for financial reasons or personal reasons. For some, surrogacy is a primary option whereas others view it as a last resort.

Surrogacy is a Personal Choice

No matter what reasons couples may have for pursuing or not pursuing surrogacy, surrogacy is a personal choice. The couple should consider all of their available options for having a child prior to determining that surrogacy is the right choice. It is important that the decision is well thought out and all options are considered.


Dr Neeraj Pahlajani

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